I Am Tatyana.

Dating in 2025 and 2026 has become one of the riskiest activities. Women meeting men for relationships, men seeking one-night stands, people buying and selling online, or just trying to make friends—things often go wrong. What’s so dangerous about strangers meeting and getting to know each other? Nowadays, one person can become obsessed, angry, or overly emotional, which can lead to unpredictable actions. Online dating has never been safe. It’s a lot like scheduling an Uber: a stranger, random conversations, and a destination. The more I think about it, the more it seems like it’s all bad. This might sound strange, but sometimes I wonder if humans are really meant to be together at all.

Humans weren’t meant to live in constant fear of each other, yet that’s the reality now. Dating, meeting strangers, trying to connect—it’s become a minefield. Men’s inability to handle rejection, their obsessions, and their unpredictability have turned what should be normal interactions into dangerous ones. Women, meanwhile, are forced to navigate a world where every swipe, every introduction, could carry real risk. We’ve gone from meeting someone with excitement to meeting someone with caution. The pattern is clear in hundreds of cases: strangers meet, boundaries are crossed, and too often, lives are lost. It’s heartbreaking and infuriating that something as human as connection has been tainted by fear and violence. Now, women have no choice but to scan for red flags before they even let someone in—and that should never have been necessary.